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   When your partner makes a mistake or does something out of context what's your reaction? We all have various ways of dealing with issues but today we'ld talk about the ladies way out. ..NAGGING. Yea ladies we know we have to say something when our partners do anything wrong but do we have to repeat it over and over again and usually in an annoying high pitched voice?    We go "I told you so hmmmm didn't I? You wouldn't listen, now see everything shey I told you...blah blah blah" babe you're sounding like a broken record. I'm with the guys on this one Nagging is a grievous sin.The problems with nagging are numerous it's the worst approach to dealing with issues, let me quote BJ Gallagher a very notable relationship expert "nagging women are verbally castrating their husbands, emasculating them and turning them into resentful or resigned wusses...".I wouldn't want to turn my boyfriend into a wuss, would you? Nagging gradually turns

   Leaving a relationship is just as hard as entering one, especially when it's the other party that wants out. When we find ourselves in such situations we are at a complete loss, not too worry though let's go through the stages together and learn how to deal with it.     First it's okay to brood, you can think about it. Think of what went wrong and what you did to contribute to the break up. The problem starts only when you start putting more blame on yourself than your partner. Secondly you are free to be emotionally down. ..it doesn't mean you are weak.    For a while you might miss your partner and just wish to patch things up, this feelings are normal but never go through with it.Let the hurt in but don't try to get back with your ex, you'ld only find yourself back where you started. Whenever you feel like running back into his/her arms surround yourself with friends and/or other activities.    Yea we know you can be friends with your ex but don't t

  There's always a dark corner in every room, no matter how lit up it looks. So it's completely ok if you have some things you've done in the past that you ain't proud of.The issue here is do you need to tell your partner? Is it necessary to?    In life we have all made one mistake or two, some people have made huge mistakes while others have just teenie tiny secrets. Although trust and faithfulness is built on honesty keeping secrets can sometimes be a blessing.You just have to study your partner well before deciding which step to take.    Some people *like me* don't really want to know all the details, especially when it has something to do with a member of the opposite sex.If you go "confessing" all your sexcapades to such people you might end up loosing them.It doesn't mean that the person resents you, some people just don't know how to deal with such situations.    On the other hand some partners want to know every detail, juicy or sour.Wel

   It's probably stale news now that most guys sugar coat their intentions when asking a girl out, and also most ladies fall for the sugar coated promises. Although I am all out for saying the truth when relationships are concerned. ..you want sex and companionship, just say it. Well since you won't and we don't have anyway of knowing what's really on your mind...Let's turn the table around for you.    My first advice is to stop looking and acting desperate, ladies let me inform you,guys can see through your actions and play on your desperation. I know we all want a solid relationship that might lead into something more but he doesn't need to know all that on the first date. Stop asking him about marriage and the like as soon as he asks you out.Things like that actually take time and mostly happens spontaneously, it's not like he'ld see you and immediately know you are his future wife.    Take things slow, as always that's the way to go. I'm no

  Online dating can be fun, I have a name for it *harmless flirting* and just like some of us I have found myself doing it once in a while. Our feelings can be tricky and sometimes for reasons we can't fathom we end up liking the person at the other end of the line. When this happens should we rule out the possibilities of something serious cause it started on the Internet? Can we throw caution to the wind and try it out?     Online hook ups have as many success stories as it has horrific tales.So we can't completely rule it out as bad or good. Today I am not talking about the downsides of dating someone you met online, I want to give us a little guide to a successful online hook up. *As we can never be too careful, if you do decide to meet, make it a very public place. Meeting halfway is usually best, it's selfish for one party to travel just to hook up with someone they met online. *Nigerian babes this is for you. Don't go and meet someone for the first time and

Top of the morning to you my dear readers...if you are reading this at a later time good day to you.Our dear naija boys are the topic of discussion again today. I want to look at cheating from a man's perspective and not just any man but our very own home boys.    Babes be like "I give him everything, why does he still cheat?".Why does he cheat despite the fact that he shows me so much affection? Questions questions,now let's look at the answers.   Men generally have the ability to detach their emotions from sex, they can sleep with someone who they don't even like. Understanding this is the first step to understanding why they cheat.So sometimes when your man cheats it's not because he's fallen out of love with you.    They say "it's cheating only when you are caught" that statement is one top reason why Nigerian guys cheat.They feel they will get away with it. According to them, no harm's done. Most times they know even if they are

Hi ladies, how's the *smoochy weather treating us?Cold hmmmn.... I have come for you again with another slightly *controversial* issue. Today I ask how far should you go to please your man? How far is too far? What if his desires are more than you can offer? Don't get it confused, I am not talking about washing his clothes or polishing his shoes...I mean how far can you go in the bedroom?    As the popular saying goes "one man's meat is another man's poison" this actually comes to play in some relationships. One partner's idea of mind blowing sex is a complete bore to the other person. Conflicting sexual appetites can be mind boggling at times, is there a way around it? Some guys due to their many sexcapades* of the past have a large sexual appetite, giving the impression that they are perverts.I know a lot of dudes who don't see anything wrong in *anal* sex but to most ladies that is far fetched. Do not judge your man hastily. Talking to him about

Hi ladies, how's the *smoochy weather treating us?Cold hmmmn.... I have come for you again with another slightly *controversial* issue. Today I ask how far should you go to please your man? How far is too far? What if his desires are more than you can offer? Don't get it confused, I am not talking about washing his clothes or polishing his shoes...I mean how far can you go in the bedroom?    As the popular saying goes "one man's meat is another man's poison" this actually comes to play in some relationships. One partner's idea of mind blowing sex is a complete bore to the other person. Conflicting sexual appetites can be mind boggling at times, is there a way around it? Some guys due to their many sexcapades* of the past have a large sexual appetite, giving the impression that they are perverts.I know a lot of dudes who don't see anything wrong in *anal* sex but to most ladies that is far fetched. Do not judge your man hastily. Talking to him about