YENIQUE

********Again*********(another poem about a broken heart) A few months ago In the season of thundery downpours My heart lied to me Yet again I thought I heard it beat in sync with your heart I thought it received signals from your heaving chest Signals of truth and decision and love Again And again it slowly stopped beating You had run a knife through it Again, it fell apart Broken, shattered and torn into a thousand pieces My heart had lied to me again Leading me one more time on a perilous journey I feel betrayed by my very own self To have believed a slitherer so Again I know my poor heart's hurt But never beyond redemption For time heals all.

       The other day I wrote about how to deal with a break up today's article deals with the art of breaking up without sounding or acting insensitive. Like I said the other time leaving a relationship is just as hard as entering into one. You might think it's really easy if you are the one calling it quits but when really faced with such situation (and if you are a sensitive person).Well there are steps to take and things to do that make breaking up much easier.    #First do not ever break up with someone over the phone, calls, texts, emails, pings are a no no . That's the first step to being extremely insensitive.   #Don't also do that in a private setting, you might get too emotional and let your guards down.   #You don't need to do the "it's not you it's me thing", it's absolutely unnecessary but then don't be so direct and spiteful when giving him/her the reasons why you want out.Be mild but also let him/her know your decisions ...

   Leaving a relationship is just as hard as entering one, especially when it's the other party that wants out. When we find ourselves in such situations we are at a complete loss, not too worry though let's go through the stages together and learn how to deal with it.     First it's okay to brood, you can think about it. Think of what went wrong and what you did to contribute to the break up. The problem starts only when you start putting more blame on yourself than your partner. Secondly you are free to be emotionally down. ..it doesn't mean you are weak.    For a while you might miss your partner and just wish to patch things up, this feelings are normal but never go through with it.Let the hurt in but don't try to get back with your ex, you'ld only find yourself back where you started. Whenever you feel like running back into his/her arms surround yourself with friends and/or other activities.    Yea we know you can be friends with you...