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Is it just for the sex?

Having second thoughts about your so-called relationship? Does your partner act like for him it's just about the sex? Are the romantic feelings one-sided? I'ld tell you what. ..there are too many fishes in the river to waste your time catching an inedible one. If you think he's using you..."run" out of the relationship.
Do not judge hastily though, let's put him to the test.
   Just answer these questions as truthfully as you can to yourself
*Does he claim he's busy all week and then when he calls it's for you guys to hook up?
   Let me say this, no one is too busy to call a loved one. I have a friend who is so busy at work,but takes rest room breaks to call his girlfriend. Don't compromise on this, if he ignores you for a whole week and only calls when he can get some "booty",shake him off.
*Does he excuse himself immediately after sex?
    He claims he has something to do, or somewhere to go. You just notice that he just has to leave always. This might mean he's not comfortable with you and it's just the sex keeping him . He doesn't know what else you guys could possibly be doing asides that.
*All he does is talk about your beautiful body and how you turn him on.
   I have this chic whose boyfriend is always texting how much he misses one part of her body or the other. He never sends a casual "hi, how's your day going" all that fills his head is the great sex they have. Please babes such guys are bad news.
*You hardly talk about relevant things?
   No serious discussions about the relationship's future or even work or your welfare.He hardly even talks about himself. It's just bed to bed. Be careful. He only sees you as his tension reliever.
*He hardly takes you out on serious dates?
   Some guys are so easy to predict, they don't see your usefulness outside the bedroom so they limit your time spent with them to indoors only.

If you answered yes to any two questions above then I guess it's time you moved on, or try one more thing. ..withhold the sex and see what happens. If he ain't treating you right please move on, don't despair...afterall there are many more where he came from *winks*.

#Yenique

Location: Parkview Estate, Ikoyi

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