Revive your relationships

Long term relationships shouldn't be a bore, that feeling of freshness should still be there. You are probably sneering and saying "that's easy to say" well it's easy to do too.
Keeping long term relationships can be seen as hard work expecially when both parties just fall into a routine and there's no fun anymore. I bring hopeful news going into a new relationship isn't the best way out because whether you like it or not it would grow old too.The easiest way out is to spice things up, ask me how here are a few tips. ..

*Do not give up your interests or hobbies or even work for your partner, if you have already try to restore . Having two distinctly independent lives helps alot, there's always something new to talk about, and information or experience to share. That alone keeps you together.
*No matter how long you two have been together never stop leading your listening ears.If you make your partner uncomfortable talking to you you are just pushing them away. Listen and be attentive to each other.
*Remember those little adjustments you made in the beginning of the relationship just so the other party feels comfortable? don't let go of those...never forget to try to please your partner. Try to satisfy them as you did when you started the relationship. Make them fall in love with you over and over again.
*Add a little extra spice, hang out, go site seeing...just do something fun and new once in a while.
*Always always woo your partner.
*Try to always surprise yourselves., gifts, unexpected dinner dates etc.
#Yenique

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