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Hi friends well I am here again and today I am talking about side chics...wait before the guys turn around I am pleased to tell you there are side dudes too.
The point here is how do we know we are the side "anything" cos believe me finding out too late hurts even more.
To begin with when I say side chic/dude I mean the extra partner, you know (the irrelevant one that only acts as a subordinate to the chairperson).But then again let me make this clear,no matter how bad you think you are you deserve your own man/woman.You are better than being a sub.
     For the chics
*I am sure he must have mentioned his main chic's name or referred to her at least once during your discussions, jokingly or as part of a serious convo.He might be so good at keeping secrets but her name would pop out.
*see he would probably lie that she's an ex or something but watch out he never says any negative thing or mostly just doesn't want to go deep into her talk with you.
*she calls he doesn't ignore he simply excuses himself except he's ******* .
*he doesn't want much association with you on social sites even random snapshots on his phone miraculously delete the next time you check.
*when together it's more about sex than anything else, no gisting about silly things and all . Infact you guys hardly have issues its just a smooth ride.
    Really shey i should go on and on? ?? You should know by now.

For the dudes........hmmmmn sticky, you probably know "sef" you are just observing"
  *well she doesn't want to be seen around with you, she doesn't want you to meet her folks or good friends. ..it's like a hush hush thing
*when you finally meet someone close to her she prefers you act like you're just friends
*she doesn't want to get too involved, no weekend stay overs or cooking or other things we chics like to do for our men.
*she has a side attraction something that makes her put up with you and you probably know it, a woman with a mission never strays far from it.Your money or even sex, anything it is if you are a side dude she would just go straight for it .
   In case you wonder how I know this...well I've been a side chic before and I've possibly had a side dude(don't ask).
  Thanks for reading #Yenique

Comments

  1. Unknown12 July 2014 at 15:05

    Lol...interesting. What of the mutual side partners?

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