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Ten important questions; for new lovers.

  It's Yenique again and today I am here to help lovers navigate the unsure waters of a new relationship. Starting a relationship can be a little awkward, questions arise "how do I get to know what he/she likes? ","what if we are just not compatible?"...and so on . Well really those questions on your mind should be answered and I suggest that in a light mood you two should get together,sit down and ask each other whatever you need to know. Please try to be truthful in your replies.
   I came across alot of questionnaires whilst surfing the net for perfect compatibility questions. I found some really interesting stuff that I thought about sharing with you but I finally decided to share my own questions. Short and on point these ten questions would give you an insight into your partner's thoughts and could help you in dealing with them.
   Remember being truthful about your answers is the key. ..here they are
*Do you prefer good looks over cleverness?
*How many calls do you deem appropriate per day? Or how many times do you think we should communicate per day? Calls, texts, bbm, WhatsApp etc
*Do you think it's necessary to know about my past relationships, the secrets included?
*Do you have to know all/most of my friends?
*Would you lie to make me happy?
*If someone attractive flirts with you would you tell me?
*What do you consider cheating?
*Would you forgive me if I cheated?
*How would you vent out your anger or frustrations in a relationship?
*If you are having a bad day would you want me to leave you alone or want me to come over to cheer you up?
  
   The answers given tell alot about the person. In case you still can't figure out what to do with the answers inbox me on Facebook www.facebook.com/Yenique9ja.Watch this space though I might post a list of the ideal answers later on...xoxo
#Yenique

Comments

  1. Unknown25 July 2014 at 10:09

    When I'm having a bad day, I just want to be left alone. Bad feelings are contagious and I won't want to spread them around. Is that a bad thing?? Advice me on this.

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  2. yenique's page25 July 2014 at 10:49

    Not necessarily bad...you just gave a good reason why you wouldn't want to be with her.

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