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NO, NO, NO

   It's another interesting Monday and I have another list of great relationship tips for the ladies. Here's a list of things we shouldn't be caught dead doing in our relationships. ..if however you have found yourself doing some or even all of it, please stop. This is yenique's top seven don't do list.      # Don't loose your personality for a man. Ladies keep being who you were before the relationship started don't alter your life, friends and all that you were because you have a new man.You had a life before you met him please keep living it.       # Don't go into a relationship with the intention of changing a man.Of course there ain't ready men out there but his likable attributes should be more than the unlikeable ones .You might end up trying to change him till even after marriage.        # Don't settle for less than you want. You have a standard don't break it down because of your desperation.       # Don't start acting wifey

So the cookie just fell out.

   Many times I hear women say "oh I gave it to him too soon" for them that sends a bad message "I'm too cheap","I can't control myself", "I'm a sex freak" blah blah blah. Is all that necessarily true? I generally believe that if a guy wants something serious with you and you stick to the 90 days rule, it's fine, if you give him the cookie straight up, it's fine. I mean his initial response shouldn't be "she slept with me ah ahah I'm so done".He should know there's more cookie where that came from and usually the crunchier ones are below the jar.      Any half decent man should know there's more to a relationship than sex, he should want to tap into these other resources. Pay attention to these           *If a guy wants just sex from you, if you like hold back for a thousand days once he gets it, he's out.           *That theory of "chop and go" is for immature nit-witted guys and ser

Harmless flirting

    Hi everyone it's a beautiful Monday and I hope you are having a swell time. I noticed that dating, relationships and even our general attitude towards sex have been gender plagued for generations. Starting from who asks who out, to who should take who on a date, to who instigates sex and so on, our roles have been set.It's not just a naija thing but we naija babes are extra shy when it comes to things like that.       So many chics have found themselves in situations where they have a huge crush and they say or do nothing about it. They don't want to come across as cheap or easy. Keeping your feelings to yourself isn't a pleasant thing, especially when the other party seems not to notice anything. However I am not saying we ladies should come out of our protective shells just yet but there are ways to flirt with a guy that wouldn't be too obvious yet a lot suggestive.Here are a few tips      #talk to him, talk about anything. Stuffs you guys have in common or

#DONOTDATE

  Hi everyone it's another yenique Monday and I am doing this on the road. I hope the rest of you are enjoying the holiday.Today it's for the ladies,I came across an article online that talked about the types of men we shouldn't date and I agree with the writer. Let me *remix* her list for you.   #mr angry      This type of men can be extra caring, hot looking boyfriend. This type of men can be very volatile too. You will never know what made his mood change and why on the earth he is behaving like this. Do not date a volatile man...it would only come back to hunt you.     # 'Aww-I'm-just-a-kid' man You should date a man. This type of guys are not fully grown up. They are happy in extending their childhood and teenage. You will be surprised to see how much he will be dependent on you.Yea I have met quite a few and they can be annoying.         #I need you so much guy This type of guys are just too emotional. Yes, they are even more emotional th

What's your flavour? ?

     Hi everyone it's another yenique day and I'm having a swell time, I hope you are too.Well today it's for the guys again and I am talking about their variant tastes in women. I've always wondered if size, shape, curves actually have a part to play during sex.I'm not saying that we don't have a right to want a particular type of girl I'm just talking in regards to sex. Some like it soft and cushy while some just want a flexible chic that can go 360° on you, is it really about that?    Well variety is the spice of life but I can gladly tell you that curves or not any lady can be earth shatteringly hot in bed. Foreplay actually is more sensuous to the lady so the excuse of wanting things to 'press' isn't genuine. For those who want the 360° any girl no matter her size can ride you like a horse *winks *.         So I am still wondering and I need all the guys who read this to please get back to me and tell me why they love their lepa/curvy/orob