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NO, NO, NO

   It's another interesting Monday and I have another list of great relationship tips for the ladies. Here's a list of things we shouldn't be caught dead doing in our relationships. ..if however you have found yourself doing some or even all of it, please stop. This is yenique's top seven don't do list.
     # Don't loose your personality for a man. Ladies keep being who you were before the relationship started don't alter your life, friends and all that you were because you have a new man.You had a life before you met him please keep living it.
      # Don't go into a relationship with the intention of changing a man.Of course there ain't ready men out there but his likable attributes should be more than the unlikeable ones .You might end up trying to change him till even after marriage.
       # Don't settle for less than you want. You have a standard don't break it down because of your desperation.
      # Don't start acting wifey on impulse. Moving all or half of your wardrobe and spending every other day at your boyfriend's is a big relationship crime.Don't go moving in, f*cking him every night and washing like it's no man's business. Don't husband him until he wifes you.
      # Don't assume things that don't exist. For example telling yourself it's an alter doomed relationship when the guy has not said anything about being exclusive. If you want something please ask him don't assume. Ask him the plans he has for you so if it doesn't follow your's you know your way out. Stop assuming.
      # Don't cheat, I mean it.Don't cheat, if you want out please feel free to cheating only backfires.
       # Don't integrate your lives, some girls go as far as changing their nicknames to Tee's babe, tattooing his name on their bodies. It's completely crazy because it hurts even more when such relationships break.
      
    I have just one thing to add, be in love don't be lost in it.As much as you love that man work with your senses and don't loose yourself. It's Yenique, have a lovely week ahead. XOXOX

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