Accepting less than perfect.

   Good day everyone it's a beautiful and almost perfect day and I hope you are all having fun.Today I want to talk about the imperfect woman.As we all know no one is perfect, we all have one flaw or another. Most men however expect certain things of their partners, lack of it could cause strains in the relationship.Seeing some otherwise detestable character in your girlfriend could be quite disappointing ,although I do believe that love can erase most if not all flaws a lady could have.
    Acceptance is key in every relationship, between friends and colleagues and also lovers.You need to understand you both have differing backgrounds and totally different lives until you came together, so she might not be your type of "perfect".To deal with things you normally can't tolerate though you might find this tips quite useful.
    #Talk to her about it, just tell her the things you would really want her to change. If it's something she might find offensive, bring it up in a light mood and don't put pressure also make sure not to sound criticising.
    #If it's an habit try helping her break out of it.Kindly remind her anytime she repeats it and don't nag.Just keep reminding her and be patient cause it takes time.
    # Things like cleaning and cooking can be learnt, don't hesitate to teach her if you know how to do it. You could encourage her to learn from her friends or people who know how to.
    # If it's something you can't change try tolerating it as much as you can. I'm talking simple adjustments like tolerating someone who snores, don't completely alter yourselves for someone else though.
When going into a relationship always have it at the back of your mind that there's no perfect girl out there, yes even that "hot hot executive" at your office might have one annoying habit or two. Till next time it's yenique. ...have a splendid week peeps
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