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How far is too far?

Hi ladies, how's the *smoochy weather treating us?Cold hmmmn.... I have come for you again with another slightly *controversial* issue. Today I ask how far should you go to please your man? How far is too far? What if his desires are more than you can offer? Don't get it confused, I am not talking about washing his clothes or polishing his shoes...I mean how far can you go in the bedroom?
   As the popular saying goes "one man's meat is another man's poison" this actually comes to play in some relationships. One partner's idea of mind blowing sex is a complete bore to the other person. Conflicting sexual appetites can be mind boggling at times, is there a way around it?
Some guys due to their many sexcapades* of the past have a large sexual appetite, giving the impression that they are perverts.I know a lot of dudes who don't see anything wrong in *anal* sex but to most ladies that is far fetched. Do not judge your man hastily. Talking to him about your views on what he expects of you in the bedroom is an easy way out but I know most of us won't choose that.
  A man in the throes of passion might be easy to maneuver, just make sure that if you won't give him his warped* desire you have to replace it with something equally mind blowing. Show him loving *your style* and make him forget what he wanted in the first place. Eventually when he gets as much satisfaction from your simple ways as he wanted in the first place he'ld let it go.
   Sometimes however some guys are just not satisfied with that, meeting them half way might be it.I am not referring to extreme cases, some guys are masochists please run away from them. There's no point in trying to please such people. But simple compromises, also don't do it always. Make him realise you are not really into it.You might get lucky and he'ld grow out of it.
   If your love life is going smoothly don't let little issues in the bedroom put a strain on it.I am all out for satisfying one's partner in every way you can, but ladies we should know where to draw the line. Don't let your man do something that would hurt physically just in the name of pleasure.
   Enjoy the rest of your rainy day friends. ..Remember you can comment here or get back to me on Facebook www.facebook.com/Yenique9ja.Let me know what you think. Till next time xoxo #Yenique

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