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  Online dating can be fun, I have a name for it *harmless flirting* and just like some of us I have found myself doing it once in a while. Our feelings can be tricky and sometimes for reasons we can't fathom we end up liking the person at the other end of the line. When this happens should we rule out the possibilities of something serious cause it started on the Internet? Can we throw caution to the wind and try it out?
    Online hook ups have as many success stories as it has horrific tales.So we can't completely rule it out as bad or good. Today I am not talking about the downsides of dating someone you met online, I want to give us a little guide to a successful online hook up.
*As we can never be too careful, if you do decide to meet, make it a very public place. Meeting halfway is usually best, it's selfish for one party to travel just to hook up with someone they met online.
*Nigerian babes this is for you. Don't go and meet someone for the first time and plan to spend the night or in some cases the weekend/week. Apart from the fact that it makes you look cheap and desperate it's risky.Please also don't go asking for expensive treats on the first date. Hopefully there's more in the future*winks*.
*Start the whole thing afresh...since you both have decided it is worth it. I am sure it's worth your time too.Online profiles are mostly a bit *spiced* up ,you both need to start from the beginning so as to know the real "yous".
*If you have finally gotten over the kinks try to limit how much you use the social network on which you met your new love. ..at least for a while. The biggest problem such relationships have is suspicion,there's a certain level of insecurity social networks cause for such partners.
*And please one serious online relationship is enough for a lifetime don't make it a habit to go love searching on the Internet.
   Please remember the Internet is a big void, be careful. I hope you enjoy your weekend as I plan on enjoying mine.Comment or send me your views on Facebook www.facebook.com/Yenique9ja.
             #Yenique

Location: Ocean Parade Towers, 1st Ave, Lagos

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  1. Unknown9 August 2014 at 10:11

    Online dating has never worked for me. Don't know why. Maybe I shud put in more efforts. Lols. Nice post

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  2. yenique's page9 August 2014 at 12:47

    Maybe you should. Thanks Victor for the compliment

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